Sexual compatibility when it comes to dating is very important. You may say that it is very progressive of the times to associate sex with just dating and marriage, but the hard truth is that it is so. One major factor in maintaining a relationship is their sexual compatibility. There is no denying that.

Just look at it this way. Why would you spend the rest of you life with someone who doesn’t make you enjoy the ultimate celebration of love? Because sex is an expression of that love. And the deeper a relationship gets, the more meaningful the sex becomes.

So now couples are actually testing it out very early to save themselves from the hurts and eventual disappointments that will surely come if they opt to stay as sexually incompatible partners. If they find out that things won’t work out sexually between them, then they just break up, giving each other time to find the perfect match for them.

This doesn’t mean that the world has turned all of us to sexually starved pigs though. What I’m saying is that the way we date today is that we seek our sexual compatible. If you’re a virgin who was raised with strong religious values about sex and marriage, then you’re probably seeking someone of the same background. I mean seriously, do you think he could work a relationship with a whore who likes to bang at least five times a day? In rare cases maybe, but the general truth is that it won’t.

So sexual compatibility is vital when it comes to dating, we’ve already established that. But there are certain views about when a couple should have them.

Many are saying that you shouldn’t have sex with a partner especially if you’re still in the early stages of your dating relationship. For women, the main reason is that you supposedly take away the possibility of having a more serious relationship. That all guys seek to have sex with you and that you’ll be left with nothing more to offer. After having sex with you, a guy supposedly has you figured all out. There’s nothing more. You’re probably a slut who’s willing to give it to anyone who asks and that you date for purely sexual reasons.

For men, it’s the same but with the opposite side of the story. Most men do want to sleep with their dates. Human nature don’t argue. But if you do, then you’re nothing more than a douche bag. That you might as well have done it with a hooker if that’s what you are looking for. If you want a serious relationship, then respect the woman and don’t have sex with her during the first dates.

Maybe valid points all, but somehow I find myself disagreeing. In fact I think it doesn’t matter either way. Just as I pointed out earlier, having sex could really help in determining whether there is something worth building, not destroying it almost at once. Information is hardly scarce at the present times so it’s safe to assume that people know what they are getting themselves into. Does sleeping with men on the first date automatically make women sluts? Or does sex with a woman on the first dates make you a sleazebag? No, it doesn’t.

It’s all natural. This desire for sexual expression. Yes, I agree that having sex shouldn’t be a man’s sole intent when he goes on dates but that doesn’t mean that he should not do it if they both feel like it. You shouldn’t base too much theories on something that people normally do everyday. So what I’m saying is that testing sexual compatibility shouldn’t be held against dating couples. I mean it’s better now than later, if you ask me.