Saving a date that has gone bad can prove to be a taxing job. Especially when it started so well during the beginning. What are the signs that the woman you are dating suddenly felt the urge to go home?

Well there are different signs that could mean she has lost interest in your date. But all of them would be caused by something you said or did. There may be obvious ones. Like getting slapped after an opinion you just pointed out (if that’s not obvious enough for you then I don’t think the rest of this article’s going to help you dude…). But seriously as dramatic as it may sound, sometimes this really happens. Okay, I’m just kidding. If that does happen to you though, I doubt you could still save the date.

Well anyway now for the more subtle signs. One of the most popular activities that women engage in when they fell bored is that they look at their watch more times than necessary. They also look around a lot and get easily distracted when people come inside the restaurant or the bar for example. These are the signs that you should look out for.

If the date was smooth in the beginning then suddenly the girl starts acting like this, then something went wrong. Don’t be so self-absorbed during the date and be alert for these signs so you could immediately do something about them. It’s such a waste especially if you think you could really hit it off with this girl.

Okay so if it the signs do present itself, the first thing that you must do is to address the issue. Don’t be afraid to clarify whatever opinion you may have had that offended her. Make her understand that it’s not how you meant it (even if it is). It also helps if you open up a discussion to let her express her own views so matters will be settled.

If that doesn’t help then go into desperate measures and show her the overly perfect personality. Be the smart and funny guy. Don’t hold anything back. Crack jokes like it is the end of the world. Hopefully, it’ll drive her mind away from what you said or did so the date will become normal once more.

If it still doesn’t work then just accept the fact that it is a bad date. Grieve about it for 10 seconds then move on. But before moving on, take a look back at what you did wrong.

Truth be told, you shouldn’t have a moment wherein you’d have to do the advice that I gave you above. Why? Because if you can’t maintain a date that started so well, then the problem lies deeper than just trying to save it in the end.

Women lose interest because of something you must have said. That’s because you are the one who talks too much. You shouldn’t be. Let the women talk. Reveal as less about yourself as possible. Make the conversation all about her. That way, there’s no way she’ll lose interest in you, as a matter of fact, it’ll even increase after the date is over once she realizes that she knows so little about you.

If it isn’t what you said, then it’s probably something that you did. Another problem. You must have turned the whole date into an all-about-me showcase. It was “I can do this”, “Once I went on…”, “I remember that time that I…”. You eliminated the challenge of the mysterious man immediately. Women love enigmatic and interesting men. Not open books. So make sure you don’t turn into one.

So the real advice in trying to save a bad date is to know how to keep it going well. If you think about what I’ve said above, then you need not deal with the hardship of trying to save an otherwise great woman from slipping from your grasps.