The dating scene is really a hard game to play. If you think only ladies have it bad well think again. In fact it may be safe to say that men have it worse when it comes to feeling the pangs of disappointment that comes with joining the dating game. Why? Because relatively, men are the ones who have to work for it. They are the ones who go after someone. They are the ones who soothe. Women were born to be found but it is for the men to find them.
And look for them we do. Everybody searches for the perfect someone. For us, it is the perfect lady. The girl of our dreams. That stunning woman. Whichever metaphor suits it best. The point is that you can hardly take away the image of this perfect being away from a man. Every man has it. He has a vision of what his perfect lady is like. The way she looks, the way she speaks, the way she moves…these things are desired in the minutest detail. These are used as the standards. Read the rest of this post »