What is etiquette? Etiquette is a set of rules that people should practice in interacting with each other and showing respect for other people. In online dating sites, some men contact women online with no sense of etiquette.
In online dating, even though men are just communicating through their computers, they should be selective with your choice of words when exchanging e-mails with women. Don’t be rough and ready. Here are the things that you should not commit when dealing with a woman online:
1. Don’t ask for her weight or measurements. If you ask for her stats, this will give her implications that you want to sleep with her.
2. Don’t email her a lot of times if you don’t receive a reply from your first email. You should be patient in waiting for her replies. She might be receiving a lot of emails to answer your email quickly. Don’t pester her by sending multiple emails. She might get annoyed and not be interested to reply to you in the end.
3. Don’t ask about her past dating experiences. It’s not important to know how many dates has she had before, even the happenings in her past dates. It is more important to find out if both of you can hit if off together.
4. Don’t ever send malicious email to her is she didn’t reply to you. You might get annoyed for not receiving any reply from but you should remember that she has the right to choose who she can exchange e-mails with. You can e-mail other women out there.
5. Don’t ever ask her if she feel like having sex with you. Don’t send your nude pictures to her. She will definitely not reply to you.
6. Call her as soon as she gives her phone number to you. You should call her the next day she gives you her number to keep the momentum going. Giving her phone number may mean that she’s interested in getting to know you more.
7. Don’t ask her to send her pictures in bikinis or skimpy outfits that reveal her flesh. I know men love women’s bodies but you should be respectful enough to ask her if she would love to exchange pictures from her. Don’t just demand pictures that you want to see. Let her choose what pictures she will send to you.
8. Don’t be insulted if she doesn’t want to e-mail you or talk to you. You are the man, so you just have to wait for her. Don’t be rude in getting what you want.
9. Don’t be a stalker to her in the e-mails. Women enjoy receiving e-mails from men but don’t send the same emails a lot of times in a day. Don’t freak her out! You will just turn her away from you. If she thinks that you are stalking him…of course, she will not ever go out with you, I assure you that!
10. Don’t use and send the same e-mails you’ve been using for months. Don’t be too lazy! Since you’re dealing with different women, make e-mail short, simple but unique.