Online dating is about meeting new people and finding your potential date and partner. Here are the things you should never do when dealing with women online:

1. No to LONG E-MAILS about your life story when conversing through e-mail.
Women don’t like men who can’t shut up their mouths. If you send women a long e-mail about your life, I’ll assure you that you won’t get a response from them. Women will not waste their time reading your long e-mails. Expect that your e-mail will be deleted and be put in trash and they will rather read other e-mails from other men.

With your long messages, they won’t be challenged to know you. They wouldn’t mink knowing a man who talk too much than them. You should remember that women love challenges and they should do much of the talking than you do. As women talk, men should listen. Your replies should be short, not longer than three sentences. Long replies will just make your conversation boring.

2. No to SEXUAL TALKS.
Never start a sexual talk with women. You’ll just prove to them sex is the only important thing for men. Why would you start that kind of talk with someone you don’t know that well? Don’t ever think of talking to her about sexual matters unless they initiate the talk. That could be a sign that they are interested in talking about that too but you should still be careful with your answers. You can join “adult” online dating sites if you want to meet aggressive women who are into sexual interests like yours.

3. No to LIES.
In online dating, most women and men lie about themselves on anything. Although it’s online, it can never be an excuse to lie to anyone. You may lie about yourself now but you can’t lie all your life. She might discover you’re lies and you’ll be the one who will push her away from you. If you are really looking for a serious partner, don’t make lies that will put you into trouble in the future. If you don’t want to be fooled, don’t fool others. Never lie to impress others. If you are true to yourself and to others, you can find the right person who can also be true to you.

If you want to build up yourself, focus on your strengths, your good qualities. You don’t need to worry of your weaknesses and negative qualities because you also have the strengths and good qualities to balance everything.

4. No to MANY E-MAIL or IM MESSAGES.
You don’t need to send too many emails or IM messages. You will just irritate her. You are like begging for her attention. You don’t need to do that! Women will be turned off on you.

If you are just starting, don’t rush. You can exchange e-mail or IM messages to get to know each other. If you have been communicating for a long time and you seem to have an interesting and exciting conversation, don’t hold back and you might have the chance to ask her for a date and meet her in person.

If you want her to be interested in you, be mysterious. Women love mysterious men. You should limit the e-mails you send. Make it two e-mails per day. You should also limit your IM conversation at least less than 15 minutes. In this way, she can be more eager to know you because of the mystery she sees in you.

5. No to TOO MANY WOMEN.
With online dating, you can communicate to any woman you want but doing these will also put you into trouble. Of course, you want many women to run after you. Thanks to God that your online profile is very effective to get a lot of responses from women everyday. Just be careful when replying to those emails.

Sometimes, you’re too busy replying to them that you forget what you reply and to whom you sent that reply. You don’t need to reply to all the women who e-mail you. You may end up embarrassed sending the same questions, wrong replies to wrong persons. Of course, that will irritate them. It is better if you reply only to women who you want to pursue. You can reply to others if things don’t work that well with them.

6. No need to hurry on ASKING HER OUT.
It takes time before you can finally ask her out to have a date with you. You don’t need to hurry. Wait till she’s ready and comfortable to meet you to have a successful date. You should remember that you have to be prepared when dating someone. Dating requires a lot of preparations, effort and money. If you see a sign that she wants to meet you, grab the chance of asking her out for a date. Lastly, get to know her first before giving out your personal information like telephone number and address.