There are no permanent rules or regulations in Christian dating. It is based on your needs of looking for someone who can be your partner combined with your religious culture. A true Christian will act and date someone decently. Of course, your Christian values will remain in you in whatever you do in life.
Here are the tips you should consider in Christian dating:
For Women
- Don’t give your personal information. You just couldn’t trust the guy that much.
- Don’t meet a guy if you are not yet ready and comfortable. He should be patient and respectful in your decision.
- Don’t make the first move. Let him be the one to call or decide to meet you.
- Don’t give your personal e-mail right away. Use a temporary e-mail first for safety
- Be courteous enough to reply to guys who send you messages.
- Post discreet pictures of you. Choose pictures of you doing something you enjoy so that others will see the real you.
- Since you are communicating with guys with the same faith as you, treat them nice.
For Men
- Don’t be so pushy on her. Be patient to wait for her decision. If she is not yet ready and comfortable to meet you, respect her.
- Treat the women with gentleness, honor, kindness, patience, respect and and self-control.
- Definitely no sex! You’ll put yourself into trouble here! Sexual purity is very important. Don’t ever deal to women to get sex.
- If she’s not interested in you, move on! Leave her alone and continue finding the woman for you. You don’t need to worry because there are many women out there for you to choose from.
- Be well-mannered to answer back every woman who sends you messages.